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Making friends online is hard. now just as soon you meet them, you don't always have to talk about everything from the get go. and just bc there's nothing to talk about doesn't mean it dies out… what really makes the difference is if they continue to talk to you the next day. (or perhaps within a few days at least!)

The way I see it is, you message 100 people, 50 of them replies. only 20 of them lasts longer a week or so, but only 10 of them would be like a few weeks, but 5 or less…


Please read at your discretion. Some topics that are discussed here may be triggering so please read at your own risk. The thing is, I don’t know what can be triggering or not. So, I would rather be safe than sorry. I will let you know before the paragraph starts if I think it could be triggering in whatever way it may be. Also, all names mentioned here are fictional to keep the integrity of my social life and others who are mentioned here. This was created in March 2020. Some information may be outdated.

My Birth

I was born on June…


You are in your last year of high school, you are being stressed out, or unsure on what to do after high school? Or, you are someone who is still in high school and still not sure what to do after high school? Many of you out there would have experienced it in some way, weather you knew what you wanted to be after high school or not.

The first question you should ask yourself is what do you want to be? What are you dreams? Does your dreams/passion conflict on what your parents want you to be? What do…


Please keep in mind that what I write, and post are from my perspective, and it is by no mean right or wrong, nor to persuade you from otherwise. If you did enjoy reading, or liked what I wrote, feel free to send me a response. If you, however, didn't like what I wrote, feel free to tell me why. My posts is not meant to help everyone that reads it,but to help those that do wish to follow it. I can’t tell you to follow it or not, its there for those that do. Small acts can make a huge difference for someone, and that’s my goal here.

If you have Discord, feel free DM me if you need someone to talk to — eth10747#4314


This story is for those of you who are wondering of who I am, what I do, and why I do them. As you can see, I’ve posted some lengthy posts about various topics, that I felt are worth talking about. My name is Ethan. Currently 17, birthday is end of June. Now, before I get into the current stuff, I should bring you back in time to get a better understanding about myself. . When I was born, I was born 14 weeks early. I only weighed about 1 pound, and 11 ounces, and I was very tiny. (To…


It’s actually really hard to define what “success” is because we all live different lives and have our own goals. Now, “success” is only defined by YOU of what you think it means to your self. Does it mean to get financially stable and land a good job? To be a doctor? A lawyer? To be a scientist? Or high paying job for that matter…. Or do you define “success” as being able to live a happy life and have a husband/wife and have kids? To have shelter? Regardless of how you define it, it’s truly your own definition that…


Him:

I feel like im most unlucky person alive My xbox broke; I lost my bo4 beta code; My shoes got messed up; My bike broke; I won a giveaway but then the community of that discord server got salty and the owner re rolled rip the 30 dollars i would have won. Im just one of the most unlucky people alive.

Me:

Still got lot to learn in life. I know these things seem big to you, but once you get older, it would have no meaning to it. Loosing your job, loosing your house, loosing your gf/bf, loosing…


Relationships, relationships, boyfriends, girlfriends, cuddling, going out, being loved, having them doing some stuff for you, having attention, etc. are all great reasons why to be in a relationship. We see many so called “perfect couples, or relationships”. They are in fact not always/ never perfect. They just show the positive side of it. And that's the case we see today, many abusive relationships (emotionally, physically and mentally) and its can be hard to get out. Now, there are different types of relationships, we have online relationships, in person, of course and open relationships and probably more. Its very important…


I'm sure everyone (if not most) here has been a victim of any kind of bullying (harassment, sexual harass‐ meant, cyberbullying, etc). We all know that bullying does not serve society or any human for that matter in a positive way. Most bullying seems to occur during elementary school, middle school, and high school for the most part. It does also occur in the work place too. Since I personally never have been bullied, I can not speak for everyone here and I'm not trying to. Bullying sucks, it hurts you, it hurts your feelings, it hurts you physically, it…


Friends can be a good thing. Friends can be bad thing. It all depends on the circumstances that you are currently facing. With that being said, friends can be one if not, the most influential aspects of your life positively and/or negatively. What does being a friend mean to you? Who are your true friends? Do you trust them? Are they someone you can talk to? Do they get mad at you over anything, even the littlest thing? Do they often fight you (debates or arguing about something)? Do they keep your promises? Do you keep their promises? Do they…

Ethan K

A young adult who enjoys sharing advices and helping others with life/relationship issues.

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